Bow and Arrow

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Confession: I despise the concept of fast-fashion. Of course I’ll indulge in fun, inexpensive updates to my wardrobe each season just like everyone else (and I must do an ASOS at least a few times a month), but generally I prefer to see my wardrobe as a collection of treasures which I curate, edit and build upon each season and love for years to come. Like any collector, I have my weaknesses that I’m drawn to again and again; give me a French detail (little black dresses, breton stripes, pearls and chain-strap bags), lucky charms and love talismans (cupid’s arrows, lip motifs, hearts and wishbones), or put a bow on anything (it must be chic, never twee) and I’m powerless to resist.

On this blog, you’re far more likely to see me wearing a mix of a new favourite items teamed with the pieces I’ve owned and loved for years and years rather than a head-to-toe look I’ve just bought that week and might never wear again. That’s not how I dress in my daily life, and it’s not how I like my wardrobe; I don’t believe in consumerism just for the sake of it, and will only buy things if I know I’m going to get mileage out of them. Whilst that probably makes me a bad blogger (I rarely post the latest trends just to drive sales), it does mean that if something appears on here, it’s because I genuinely love and wear that item (and think you might too).

A Girl, A Style _ Lulu Frost
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Take this outfit, for example: I bought this little Marc Jacobs ‘Stam’ bag about 12 years ago (I loved it so much I invested in three versions of the same bag and still bring them out each year, because to me they’re classics), these sunglasses were a gift from my fiancé about 10 years ago (they’re so classic that they’re still Chloe’s bestsellers every season), and I bought these Louboutin heels a few years ago and still love them (even though they’re entirely impractical). Throw in a dress which works as well on weekends as it does at the office (it’s both fun and classic at the same time) and some jewels which feel like vintage treasures, and it’s the perfect formula.

So my point is this: invest a little more in those labels and pieces that make you the happiest (they’re usually the items you are drawn to again and again, regardless of trends), treasure them for years and just add a few fun new things into the mix to keep things fresh each season.

If you embrace the items you can’t help but collect, then your wardrobe will always feel like a curation of treasures.

A Girl, A Style _ Marc Jacobs Stam Bag
A Girl, A Style _ Bow & Arrow 6Wearing: Carven dress (sold out, but similar styles here) // Christian Louboutin heels (old, but similar styles here) // Marc Jacobs bag (old, but available here) // Lulu Frost necklace (old, but similar styles here) // Lulu Frost earrings (similar style here) // Kenneth Jay Lane ring // Chloe sunglasses.
Beauty: MAC ‘Ruby Woo’ lipstick // Deborah Lippmann nail polish // NARS ‘Impassioned’ blush

Which pieces do you collect time after time? I’d love to hear about your most treasured items and talismans!

Love, Miss B xx

Photos by Amber-Rose

Je T’aime Jane

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I’m recently back from Australia (where the sun shone every single day), so I know I can hardly complain, but spring could not come soon enough around here! Honestly, I’m running out of ways to dress for winter, so rather than striving for originality when I dress each day, I have admitted defeat and have instead been investing in the best quality versions of the classic staples I reach for most days; a gorgeous coat, a cosy cashmere sweater, or great shoes I can actually walk in.

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My sartorial approach of late has either been to throw a coat over a great dress (just add jewels and winter accessories), or to team a favourite sweater with a little black skirt (and secret thermal layers underneath). I have about five favourite sweaters in rotation, but given my enduring Francophile obsession, this Bella Freud iteration (an ode to Jane Birkin + Serge Gainsbourg) is a probably my most treasured.

When paired with a crisp white Oxford shirt it’s a little more smart and preppy (and serves to break up an otherwise all-black outfit and therefore stop my from looking accidentally goth), and then I’ll either team it with opaque tights and heels for the office, or these over-the-knee boots (which are a revelation in themselves for being both custom-fit to your exact proportions and comfortable enough to walk around in all day long) for weekend errands, coffee dates and everything in between. It’s not groundbreaking, but there’s a lot to be said for finding your go-anywhere uniform each season. I call it zero-effort chic.

Or, as the French would say (to paraphrase): vive la sweater!

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Wearing: Bella Freud sweater // J.Crew skirt (similar style here) // Uniqlo shirt // Lulu Guinness bag (also in powder blue) // Ted&Muffy boots c/- (similar styles here) // Celine sunglasses (c/- SmartBuyGlasses) // BaubleBar earrings (similar style here) // Lulu Frost crystal ring // Alex Monroe ‘love’ ring // ASOS pearl ring // Jacquie Aiche heart ring.
Beauty: Tom Ford ‘Cherry Lush’ lipstick // NARS ‘Amour’ blush // Chanel ‘Singulaire’ nail polish.

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Tell me, what is your winter uniform or the staples you rely on at this time of year? 

Love, Miss B xx

Photos by Amber-Rose

Winter Floral

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Let it never be said that I don’t know what I like. Trends come and go – and whilst I’ll sometimes experiment with a new style – it’s those classic, gorgeously feminine pieces I always reach for. Or put more simply, red lipstick and Louboutins always trump #normcore (unless you’re my friend Alex of The Frugality, who wears boyfriend shirts and Birkenstocks like no one else and makes me wish I were half as cool as her). 

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I’m pretty powerless against a dark floral dress, but I always prefer a dark, winter version (as seen here and here) vs a lighter spring iteration, which can feel a little too twee or predictable. I bought this neoprene version in Anthropologie before Christmas, and it it looks instantly glamorous, but is actually completely effortless (exactly what I like in a dress). I teamed it with my sky-high red Louboutins for date night, but it looks just as good with a mid-heel (this Kate Spade pair are a perfect substitute because, let’s be honest, those Louboutins are strictly taxi shoes only) for dinner, or teamed with black boots or a ballet flat for day. Just add red lipstick and a jaunty beret and voila: the perfect coquettish winter look that will work for just about every occasion.

A Girl, A Style _ Winter Floral 2A Girl, A Style _ Chanel Classic 2.55 Flap BagWearing: Erin Fetherston at Anthropologie dress // Kate Spade coat // ASOS beret // J. Crew necklace // vintage bracelet (similar style at J.Crew) // Lulu Frost crystal ring // Alex Monroe ‘love’ ring // ASOS pearl ring // Jacquie Aiche heart ring // Christian Louboutin heels // Chanel bag. 
Beauty: NARS ‘Greta’ Audacious lipstick // Chanel ‘Provocation’ nail polish // NARS ‘Orgasm’ blush.

What’s your instant style formula for winter?

Love, Miss B xx

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Photos by Amber-Rose

The Party Dress

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Happy holidays! I’m off to Australia today just in time for Christmas; I haven’t been back in a few years and I couldn’t be more excited to see my family and friends and white sandy beaches. But because Christmas in the middle of summer just doesn’t feel as merry, I’ve been cramming in as much of the festive season here in England as I can before jetting off for the other side of the world.

There have been all my favourite traditions; all-weekend holiday movie marathons in our pyjamas (with a side of hot cocoa), holiday baking sessions (and dancing around in our kitchen to Christmas tunes), the Royal Ballet’s The Nutcracker, seeing all of London’s Christmas decorations and department store windows and a few marvellous holiday parties.

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Of course, a fabulous holiday party demands a dress to match; preferably the sort that makes you want to twirl, and which can be worn year after year as you create new memories and traditions.

I added this floral organza dress to my collection a month ago, and it has already taken me everywhere from my office Christmas party and an afternoon tea date with a friend, to the most fabulous soirees on my schedule (just add a little extra sparkle). I love everything about the style (bonus points for any dress with pockets), and it will work just as well on Christmas day (even in the Australian heat) as it will well after the holiday season has ended.

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Wearing: Whistles dress (I also love this similar style) // Lulu Guinness clutch (on sale!) // Kate Spade heels (more colours here) // J.Crew crystal necklace // J.Crew emerald necklace (also in pink) // Eugenia Kim headband (similar style at Shopbop) // vintage bracelet // Kenneth Jay Lane ring // vintage earrings (almost identical styles at BaubleBar + Net-a-Porter).
Beauty: Chanel ‘Singulaire’ nail polish // MAC ‘Ruby Woo’ lipstick // Charlotte Tilbury eyeshadow // Clarins ‘Soft Peach’ blush.

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Do tell me; how do you dress for the party season? Wherever you are, and however you celebrate, I hope you’re all having a wonderful holiday season!

Love, Miss B xx

Photos by Amber-Rose