Giveaway: A Little Ralph Lauren Holiday Cheer

The most divine package landed on my desk yesterday morning; the utterly charming and lovely Ralph Lauren (the undisputed Godfather of that polished glamour I love so much) sent me over a couple of his ‘Holiday’ candles to put a great big smile on my face and instantly get me in the festive spirit.

I love beautiful scented candles more than almost any other small luxury for the home, and this one is amongst the best I’ve ever tried. The fragrant cocktail of pine needles, redcurrants, cinnamon and juniper berries is almost indescribably lovely, and it has instantly infused me with festive joy more than any of the mince pies and Rat Pack Christmas tunes I’ve been gorging on all week. And as if by some Christmas miracle, it started snowing outside my window here in Cambridge just after I lit it. I can’t tell you how much it filled me with glee to awake this morning to the sight of a fluffy layer of white icing on the ground and a house that smelt of Christmas. How’s that for a magical holiday candle?

And because I adore you all so much and want someone else to have a little of Ralph Lauren’s holiday cheer (I can’t promise it will bring you snow, but I am sure one smell of this will make you feel instantly happy and festive), I’m going to give one of the these away.

To enter, just leave a comment here or send me an email telling me why you’d like to win. For extra brownie points (though I’m by no means going to be bossy about and insist you do anything), follow A Girl, A Style via your preferred methods (Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, Instagram (on iPhone/iPad) or Bloglovin‘), and Ralph Lauren’s Facebook page. Be sure to include your email address so that I can contact you if you win. And so that I can try my very best to get it to the winner in time for Christmas day, last entries by 11am Monday morning GMT. 

Thank you Ralph Lauren for the holiday cheer!

Love, Miss B xx

Update: Thank you to all who entered, and congratulations to Barbara on winning!

Inside My Home, pt. 2: Clever Storage

When short on wardrobe space, turn your favourite accessories into art by putting them on display rather than stuffing them into a closet (just be sure to keep them free of dust and out of direct sunlight). Chanel 2.55 bag and Mulberry bow booties.

As I mentioned on the last peek inside my home, my place might be cute, but it’s also tiny (that would be large by London/New York standards…) – and therefore small on storage space. Alas, I’m still yet to master the art of the 10-piece capsule wardrobe and an abandonment of other worldly goods. As such, I’ve had to be very creative with the space to manage to squeeze everything in in a matter that’s still organised and streamlined (read: not having piles of clutter everywhere).

Regardless of the size of my space, I’m a terrible geek when it comes to organising (I could read Martha Stewarts tips for hours, and happily spend rainy weekends knee deep in clothes having a good wardrobe purge) and like everything to have a home, even if that home happens to be in an unexpected place.  My golden rules, especially applicable to all small and/or rented spaces are: declutter (own only that which you love – there’s no point trying to find space for something you don’t actually need/want); categorise (store similar items together, making it easier to find everything you do have); think creatively (if you don’t have the space to store something in the normal way, find a new way to house it, or turn it into an aesthetic feature).

Top-bottom: Sort jewellery and small pieces by style and store in teacups, bowls and dishes (you can pick up pretty, mismatched china for a steal at flea markets and on ebay); turn otherwise unused spaces (in this case the top of the toilet cistern!) into a display for a cluster of pretty toiletries; organise your wardrobe by season, and then streamline by colour/style/occasion.

Wardrobe: Begin by having a good wardrobe purge – donating/selling all those pieces you don’t absolutely love, which are unflattering or that are worn out. There’s no point taking up valuable closet space with things that either don’t get worn or that don’t make you feel good. Second, store all your out-of-season clothing, as well as pieces you’re not currently wearing, in storage boxes (I have inexpensive, shallow plastic tubs that slide under my bed for this purpose – you can buy these anywhere and they are perfect for keeping dust out). With what’s left, hang clothes on good quality hangers (silk padded hangers for delicate clothes, wooden hangers for the rest where possible) by colour and style – this will not only look more streamlined, but make it easier to put together an outfit in the morning. If you have shelves/drawers, adopt a similar approach and fold everything neatly then stack by style and colour.

Accessories: Store most of your shoes in their boxes (stuff the toes with tissue to retain their shape), and stack these at the bottom of your wardrobe. Hang scarves on hooks (either inside the wardrobe, or over the door). Store jewellery in pretty dishes and boxes (I sort mine by style/colour, and store the pieces I’m not currently wearing in golden boxes at the back of my jewellery drawer) - this will not only make it easier to find each piece, but protects them from damage and becoming one tangled mess. For your favourite accessories, why not turn them into art and place them on show? I stack all my Vogue magazines along my wall, and sit favourite pieces atop the piles (that way even when I’m not wearing treasured pieces, I can look at them – some accessories are just too pretty to be hidden in dustbags!). For all other accessories, store them in sturdy boxes in the wardrobe or under the bed (I use my glossy black Net-a-Porter boxes for this purpose).

Toiletries: Given I’m a beauty junkie, I always have far more products than I’ve ever actually been able to fit in my bathroom. As such, I have yet more plastic tubs filled with the excess, and display the rest in the most organised/pretty way I can. In the case of tiny bathrooms, think laterally and use little-used spaces such as windowsills, unused corners, the top of toilet cisterns to cluster similar items together in a nice way (a flower or a candle won’t hurt to make it look nicer). For my benchtops, I’ve got most of my bottles and potions stacked atop a big white porcelain cakestand to keep it from looking cluttered, with lipsticks and eyeshadows in little porcelain dishes, and brushes and lipglosses in vintage Moroccan glasses.

Kitchen: As with your accessories, where you are lacking in cupboard space, then put your favourite items on display and make a feature out of it. I’ve got a little cluster of gorgeous teapots, tea canisters and silly things that don’t fit in my kitchen cupboards, but look beautiful on a bench. Similarly, if you don’t have a bar, then group cocktail ingredients together on a vintage silver dish and turn it into a feature.

Books and other collections: If you’re like the Clever Boyfriend and I, the bookshelves in small/rented places are never adequate enough to house a good collection of books. As with the other rooms, choose a collection of favourites and turn them into a feature by making a big stack of them beside the couch, or to become a mini-table (top with a lamp, and a vase of flowers and it’s practically furniture).

Top-bottom: In the absence of a bar, a vintage print and a silver tray on a corner of the kitchen bench becomes a makeshift cocktail station; over-door-hooks give a home to scarves, ribbons and sashes, as well as a current bag or two (in this case Marc Jacobs).

Do you live in a small place that requires you to be creative with your storage? I’d love to know your savvy tips!

Love, Miss B xx

Inside My Home, pt.1: The Personal Flourishes

Pots of herbs on my windowsills become my ‘garden’, while favourite coffee-table books and accessories (in this case, a Lulu Guinness lips clutch) sit on show.

So many of you have asked for more personal style posts, so as well as more shots of what I wear, I thought I would give you a peek inside my home. While I dream of living in a vast, airy apartment with views over rooftops, a balcony upon which to spend afternoons reading, and a walk in wardrobe, my reality is sadly not (yet) that. Until we can figure out where in the world we want to eventually settle, the Clever Boyfriend and I rent our little flat in Cambridge. It’s not huge, but it is filled with light and a mere stone’s throw from glorious open fields, leafy cycle paths, and the colleges on the river.

Because I can’t change the colour of the walls, hang large pictures or choose the furnishings, I have to be more creative with making the place feel like it’s my own. I’m no homemaking dictator, but here are a few tips that I’ve adopted in my own place – none need cost much money, but will make a vast improvement in making your place feel homely:

I save space by displaying my favourite perfumes (besides, they’re too pretty to hide); treasures on the windowsill – ‘B’ a gift from my dearest friend, summery scented candles, a golden Big Ben and a white bobble-head celluloid rabbit from Tokyo. 

Bedroom: The most important room to keep clutter-free; this should be your haven. Crisp white Egyptian cotton bedding and fluffy pillows for the most welcoming bed; a beautiful scented candle or two (one exquisite candle is better than 10 cheaper versions – they will fragrance the room even when not burning, and case the most beautiful, soft light when they are); stacks of beautiful books and magazines for evening reading in bed; pretty bedside lamps (their light is much cosier in a bedroom), fresh flowers (even a single bloom in a vase beside the bed will feel lovely), a display of your favourite perfumes and treasures.

Living room: Display your favourite treasures and collections on tables, shelves and window sills where you can enjoy them; a shelf filled with lovely and enriching books and a lamp beside which to read them; somewhere to play your favourite tunes; a deliciously soft blanket or a few quirky cushions for couch-lazing; vintage maps, wallpaper, simple drawings or black and white photographs make beautiful art when framed.

Entryway: Somewhere to hang the jackets/scarves/tote bags/umbrellas currently in rotation (those not being used should be stored away); a little table or dish to catch keys, coins, and other essentials needed each day; a place to take off shoes as you arrive through the door; a welcoming mat, picture or quirky display; a mirror for final primping on the way out the door.

Miniature townhouses (my mother bought these in England when I was a child, and they were one of the few homely touches that would fit in my suitcase when I moved here myself) sit atop my cookbooks; a stack of beautiful books for lazy evenings indoors; my first Barbie doll (that arrived in a package full of jewels and treasures from another dear friend in Australia) perches atop my Kartell lamp; DIY art, vintage prints, and other accoutrements to inspire me at my desk.

Bathroom: This room should generally be free of random accoutrements, and decorations are generally best when they are simple and inexpensive – a display jar full of shells collected from walks on the beach, a single cut flower, a candle to burn when lazily bathing, and your favourite beauty treats on display (to remind you not to save them ‘for best’). Invest in the fluffiest towels you can afford (heaven to step out of the shower into) and gorgeous beauty products that make you smile every time you use them.

Kitchen: Should be welcoming and clean. Pots of herbs on the windowsill or kitchen sink will feel lovely (and are delicious); a freshly-scented candle to remove cooking smells; a stack of beautiful cookbooks; pretty china and glassware (scour flea markets or ebay for cheap vintage plates and cocktail glasses). A favourite teapot and umpteen types of tea are, for me, obligatory.

My bedside table – where flowers and candles are obligatory. 

I’d love to know how you make your home your own?

Love, Miss B xx